Is aging all in our minds?

by midlifemaven on February 8, 2010

Some of us are lucky enough to still experience those times when we notice we are feeling really good – much younger and fitter than we know we are. Sadly as we age these times tend to be followed by aching bodies and the sad realization that we really, truly, can’t still do what we did at 25. Or is that really true?

In 1979 Harvard psychologist Ellen Langer was working on the connection between mind and body in aging, and conducted a fascinating experiment that we are only just learning about. In this experiment a group of men in their seventies and eighties were asked to take part in “a week of reminiscing”. One group sat and talked about what they did twenty years earlier, while the other group were put in a specially staged environment that had movies, music and props from 1959. This group were asked to discuss whatever they thought about in the present tense, as though they really were in 1959. The environment was also deliberately free of any devices that might typically be present where older people gather, and the men had to do everything for themselves, from carrying their suitcases in to cooking their own meals.

What she found was that the first group had a good time, but showed no physical changes for better or worse. On the other hand, the men in the second group showed marked physical improvements in lowered blood pressure, improved vision, hearing and cognitive function and mobility – all things we tend to believe aren’t reversible. This was an astonishing result, but as anecdotal results aren’t considered to be valid data, the factual report published in 1981 didn’t attract much public attention.

Now Dr. Langer is ready to share these stories. Her research into the mind-body connection as we age has continued, and she has formulated her theory about what happens. She says, “My own view of ageing is that one can, not the rare person but the average person, live a very full life, without infirmity, without loss of memory that is debilitating, without many of the things we fear.” For those of us at midlife, this is a fascinating idea!

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Being slightly overweight can help you live longer

by midlifemaven on February 1, 2010

Given the recent discussion about women’s’ dissatisfaction with their bodies because they feel unable to meet the media standards of very tall and thin models, it made me laugh to come across this article . It reports on research that found that overweight women live longer than their very under- or overweight counterparts.

The most interesting part was that the usual risks of increased body mass are considerably less in older women than they are in younger people. These findings are making the researchers realize that it is time to review what is really ‘normal’ as we age.  While I would be the first to warn against  unlimited eating, it is good to hear that there is a useful reason for the weight we tend to gain as we age. Our bodies seem to know something science is only just coming to understand.

On a similar vein, I was listening to NPR this morning, and heard this story. Initially it seemed to be a story about the physical and mental benefits of raising your heart rate which was interesting, but nothing new. Part way through I suddenly heard a reference to this long term study of nurses. It was found that in women aged 50 and up, just 72 minutes a week of activity that raises your heart rate, such as walking, can make a real improvement to your health as you age. The study found that women who exercised even this modest amount had significantly less diabetes and heart disease. So, not only does exercise improve your heart function and mood, but the increase in blood flow to the pre-frontal cortex of  your brain helps control impulsive behavior, possibly giving an extra moment to decide against eating the candy bar after exercising.

Given the discouraging messages the media often gives us about our bodies, I was encouraged to realize that upping my exercise level a bit and carrying a bit of extra weight isn’t all bad!

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Real women are allowed?

January 9, 2010

I hope that this flurry of articles and photo spreads are just the beginning of a new trend. Wouldn’t it be amazing to see designers and magazines working as hard to appeal to real midlife women with exciting and flattering clothing designs that reflect who we are now, on models who look like us?

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The strangeness of memory

December 29, 2009

I imagine that the specter of memory loss hunts all of us as we age, so finding that I had memories tucked away that I’d forgotten yet which were so easily uncovered, gives me hope that my mind is still functioning reasonably well. In the light of my discoveries, what pleasant surprises has your memory offered you?

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Reclaiming Your Dreams at Midlife

December 14, 2009

Does that mean that those dreams that haven’t been lived, or that didn’t quite make it to fulfillment are gone forever? Whatever your history, at midlife we all have a chance to review our dreams; the ones we got to live, the ones we followed with limited success and the ones we regret not following, and may wonder if they can be recaptured. Perhaps now is also the time and opportunity to fulfill your dreams?

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Technological advancement?

December 9, 2009

I usually go through the ’self checkout’ lane in stores when they are an option, largely because they have shorter lines so assume I will get through faster. Like most people, I have been frustrated by items that don’t weigh enough for the machine to acknowledge they are in the bag, such a greeting card, and the times when the machine imperiously demands I put the 20 lb tub of cat litter on the small surface area among the salad vegetables before it will let me proceed. Despite this, I still prefer these lanes when I’m in a hurry and don’t have many items to scan!

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Senior moment?

December 4, 2009

I just read an interesting article in Psychology Today called, So you think you’re having a senior moment? Think again, by Susan Krauss Whitbourne, Ph.D. In it she says that the all-too-familiar lapses of memory that seem to get worse at midlife are not symptoms of imminent Alzheimer’s, but instead are caused by our determination to multitask.

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Happiness

November 29, 2009

It turns out that Penn has a department of positive psychology, and their website has a battery of quizzes you can take to find out how happy-or depressed-you are. As a longtime answerer of quizzes and questionnaires, I immediately signed up (the results become part of the research so your consent to participate is required) and got going.

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Giving thanks for the small things

November 26, 2009

Since I am actively trying to notice when I am nudged in the same direction by a variety of sources, it seemed appropriate that today’s post should be about the things I am truly thankful for.

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Revamping and revising

November 22, 2009

It has been a while since I last posted and feel you deserve an explanation for my absence. As with so many things, it was the result of a sense of uncertainty about the direction I was taking. I realized that although I had set up my midlife sites as ideas evolved, nearly a year later it was no longer clear to me what purpose each site was aiming to fulfill. Clearly the sites needed rationalizing, and the time had come to create order from the emerging chaos – and to clarify for myself what I was trying to accomplish.

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